NYC LGBTQ Couples Counseling with Emily Lambert Robins
Love is love, and you deserve to work with a therapist who truly gets your relationship, without you having to worry about your dynamic being questioned or judged. Whether you’re navigating transitions in your relationship, want to improve your communication skills, or are simply looking to deepen your connection, I’m here to support you with a blend of evidence-based care and genuine enthusiasm about this work.
Meet your NYC LGBTQ couples therapist
Emily Lambert Robins, LCSW
Hi! I’m Emily, and I’m a firm believer that couples therapy doesn't have to be all heavy conversations and tissues (though we'll have those moments, too). I'm all about getting you two talking to each other, not just complaining to me. Expect some real talk, a few laughs, and maybe even some "aha!" moments that surprise you both, all in a space that celebrates queer relationships.
Credentials: Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist, AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist
Clientele: Adults, couples, & polycules
Location: New York City
Virtual therapy: Yes, for NYC and all of NY, NJ, and CT
How to get started
Step 1: Reach out for a free consultation
Fill out this quick online form, and I’ll be in touch to set up a consultation.
Step 2: Attend your initial call
During your consultation, I’ll answer any questions you have about the process.
Step 3: First full session
If we’re a good fit, we’ll set up an intake session, where we’ll talk more about your situation and goals.
Step 4: Create lasting change
Through guided, regular sessions, you’ll work together to build the connected, joyful relationship you deserve.
Common issues I help LGBTQ couples with
Navigating identity and coming out processes within the relationship
Communication breakdowns and feeling misunderstood by your partner(s)
Loss of intimacy, passion, or sexual connection
Conflict cycles that seem impossible to break
Balancing individual identity with partnership
Family acceptance and external relationship pressures
Navigating polyamory and ethical non-monogamy
Sexual concerns, including desire discrepancy and performance anxiety
Life transitions and major relationship decisions
Building deeper emotional and physical intimacy
FAQs about LGBTQIA+ couples counseling
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Think of it as learning a new language—the language of really hearing each other, in a way that you may never have before. We'll work on translating lingering frustrations into messages your partner(s) can actually receive, plus give you tools to navigate conflicts without feeling like you're stuck on repeat. Therapy is meant to be a safe haven for your relationship, where you can have the tough conversations so you can grow closer and take your connection to the next level.
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You bet! Whether you're exploring ethical non-monogamy, already practicing polyamory, or somewhere in between, I'm here to support you. Every relationship structure has its own beautiful complexities, and I love helping folks create the authentic connections that work for them—no judgment, just curiosity and support.
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Couples therapy with me is a collaborative process where I help you and your partner(s) open up, communicate, and hear each other. I’m not here to mediate or take sides, but rather to play a supportive role in cultivating a stronger connection. Fair warning: even though we talk about tough stuff, you might actually have some fun in the process—couples are often surprised by how much laughter happens in our sessions!
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If you're looking for a seasoned therapist with a warm, authentic approach that honors your identities and unique relationship style, we might be a great match. I work best with couples ready to dig deep and do the work of truly hearing each other and growing together. I also specialize in sex therapy, so I’m especially passionate about helping LGBTQ+ couples who need support in this area. Nothing is taboo here!
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Simply reach out to request a free consultation where we can chat about your concerns and goals. This gives us both a chance to see if my approach feels right for your relationship before committing. If we choose to work together, we’ll set up your first appointment. I look forward to meeting you!